30 May 2008

What Sugar likes

28 May 2008

SUGASM #133 ...is actually quite unexpected

(Thanks so much for the Editor's Choice award! That is so awesome.)

Sugasm #133











Julia S. courtesy of Badgirls Hotbox.



The best of this week's blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #134? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you're all set.


This Week's Picks

Giving a Damn

"Something happened somewhere along the way, though. I began to care."


Catalina loves "Better Sex Through Yoga"

"I've tried a lot of things, as you can imagine, but there were even a few new things in there for me!"


Reality Check: Dealing With Assholes

"Being able to decline a call is great but bills still need to be paid."


Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank


Editor's Choice

The Secret Lives of Plants


More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm


See also: Fleshbot's Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.


(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)


Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Infidelity - An International Pastime

Misc. Letters

Rant: Strip clubs are for customers, not dancers

Top Ten Law Phrases That Sound Dirty, but Aren't


Sex News, Reviews & Interviews

Mistress Claire Adams Dominates Sarah Jane Ceylon on Hogtied

Sasha Grey HotMovies Interview

Site Review: Into The Attic

The Ultimate Smoking Fetish Movie - Julie Simone's Smoking Interviews 3


Erotic Writing and Experiences

And Closer Still

Doin' It Like A Porn Star

Fucking the co-worker

Ode to Anal - Sebastian, and the anal bond

The Ruf Guide to Coital Stamina

She's Got Teeth

Smoking please.

So... who are you tonight?

Subway Ride

The West End Experience


Sex Work

My Naughty Thoughts


NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Bedroom Radio #15: JohnBaku of FetLife and the G Twist Vibrator

Bouquet

Duck Race HNT

Flirtatious little bows -HNT

Guy fucks a black mouth in free video

Half-Nekkid @5:30 am

Hot Asian webcam girl made me cum hard

Julia S. - Bellisssima

Missed Show Punishment Spanking - Video Clip

Mistress Seven and Mistress Porsche Lynn shopping

Mistress Zena trampling a lucky sub

Putu (Hegre-Art)

Video: Cock Teasing, Twice-Coming Fun!


Sex Advice

Advice: My Boyfriend Won't Go Down on Me

Greater Intimacy Through Tantric Sex

On Desire

Reader Asks: I Haven't Met Her, But Should She Leave Him?

Smelling Like Sweet Romance?? - The Dangers of Douching


BDSM & Fetish

Anniversary, fatigue and quickies

Another Interesting Morning

Arrival

Beating

Follow My Rules-Part II

Haunt Hunt, But No Goth Cunt

Learning My Limits (part 3)

My IMsL 2008 Trip - Part 6

Parachutes and Panties

Stock and Bonds, ch. 2

Summertime, And The Piggies Are Easy

Underneath

21 May 2008

The Secret Lives of Plants

My lover is a willow tree woman.

The soft coils of her pale hair catch every breeze, twisting and dancing around her shoulders. Her clothes echo the softness of her body; cotton, velvet, textures that call out to the hand. She is grace, she is peace, she is quietude, and I take shameless advantage, sinking all my contrariness beneath her placid surface, where it dissolves, like sugar in tea.

You would think, if you knew her, that such a woman would be soft and yielding in bed - cooing, sighing, coming to her bliss like the last lines of a poem. Imagine her, dark lashes against her pale cheek, lips parted, the glory of her hair spilled out over a pillow; she must moan like this, cry out like this, curl long legs around her lover in a grateful embrace. Coming like a lady, the picture of femininity, a pink-hazed romantic ideal. Pliant, quiet, willow.

It's a lovely vision and completely wrong.

My love is an elemental force when she fucks, a raging storm brewing from the first fierce kiss, forcing my lips apart to accept her, and I am helpless; I bend like a reed to the strength of her passion. I am devoured, fed upon, held down by the bite of her demurely French-manicured fingernails, as her teeth catch my lip, as we tumble into bed with clothes half torn off and the marks of her hunger swelling on my skin. There is no delicacy, there is no mercy. The world becomes her darkened eyes, her hands, her body tense and demanding, the steady, predatory rasp of her breath. Her voice, so low and steady, every word sure as she tells me whose I am.

Disbelieve, if you will. I'm sure some of you dream of taking her into your beds, claiming that softness for your own. How beautiful, some of you think, she would look on her knees. Pliant. Quiet.

Dream away. I know the truth.

And the truth is - when my love lets that softness fall away from her, when she unbinds her Self from the pleasant, sweet, undemanding person the rest of the world sees - I wouldn't have it any other way. When I am burning up, seared by the furnace hidden inside her, when I am given up to her pleasure and commanded to wait for my own - while she rocks, the pressure of her inner thighs locked around my hips, her cunt the most beautiful perfect greedy suction while I try to wait, agonizing, every inch of me shaking like a leaf in her storm -

I am honored. I gladly offer myself to her, to be consumed in that fire night after night. To never be without her marks on my body, hidden under clothes, the way she hides.

Tell me I'm weak, tell me I'm a fool, that I should be more than this.

Just don't expect me to listen. I'm too busy, keeping my willow tree's secret.